Opportunities to meet new people\u2014or deepen existing relationships\u2014can feel fewer and farther between. Yet this season of life is when community matters most.<\/p>\n
A few years ago, former U.S. surgeon general Vivek Murthy called loneliness an epidemic and a major public health risk. Research shows isolation can affect both our minds and bodies\u2014weakening our immune system and increasing the risk of dementia, depression, and anxiety.<\/p>\n
Conversely, staying socially connected supports mental, emotional, and physical health. Many believe strong friendships can help us live longer and with greater purpose. Community gives rhythm to our days and reminds us that we\u2019re part of something bigger.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve been lucky enough to witness the power of community firsthand. More than thirty years ago, I began designing crafting products that encourage people to celebrate meaningful moments. Over time, that work has grown into a creative community that spans the country.<\/p>\n
Twice a year, we host gatherings that bring thousands of people together for a weekend of creativity. What has surprised me most is how these events spark lasting friendships and local groups that continue long after the weekend ends.<\/p>\n
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<\/a>Friends from the California-based creative community gather to celebrate Myrna\u2019s 80th birthday\u2014turning shared creativity into meaningful connection and lasting friendship. Photo: Marie Fix<\/p><\/div>\n
In California, for example, Marie Fix began a small online meet-up with a few women she\u2019d connected with through crafting. What started as a handful of Zoom calls evolved into a group of more than 150 participants who show up for each other in meaningful, everyday ways.<\/p>\n
When one member turned 80, nearby friends from the group celebrated with her\u2014and even created scrapbook pages of the occasion. For her, those pages have become a joyful reminder of friendship and connection. As Marie says, \u201cThe community is only as good as the people inside it, and these people have stepped up in ways that really take care of each other.\u201d<\/p>\n
<\/a>Tex-Annas. Photo: Martha Frischknecht.<\/p><\/div>\n
A similar story unfolded in Texas, where a group nicknamed the \u201cTex-Annas\u201d began meeting after attending one of our creative weekend events. At first, they gathered to share ideas. Soon, their meet-ups became something deeper\u2014a space to laugh, decompress, and recharge.<\/p>\n
Some are grandmothers, caregivers, or busy professionals, and the group became a welcome pause in their hectic lives. As founding member Martha Frischknecht describes it: \u201cCrafting might be what brings us together, but it\u2019s really about the friendship and the common bond we share. It\u2019s an excuse for joy.\u201d<\/p>\n
These stories remind me that connection is possible at every stage of life. If you\u2019re looking to build or strengthen your own sense of community, here are a few places to begin:<\/p>\n
1. Start with what you already love<\/h3>\n
Hobbies and shared interests are a natural starting place. Whether it\u2019s a book club, faith community, pickleball league, gardening group, or creative hobby, ask if others would like to stay connected beyond regular meetings. If no group exists, try posting a simple flyer at a local library or community center. Shared activities remove the pressure to make conversation from scratch.<\/p>\n
2. Use technology to bridge the distance<\/h3>\n
Virtual meet-ups can bring connection to your doorstep, no matter where you live. Tools like Zoom or Facebook groups can help you organize gatherings, stay in touch with faraway friends, or reconnect with people you\u2019ve lost touch with. You can even plan shared experiences\u2014such as trying the same recipe or project\u2014then chat about it online afterward.<\/p>\n
3. Put connection on your calendar<\/h3>\n
Choose a recurring day or two each month and schedule them like any other appointment. A standing phone call, a monthly coffee, or a regular group meet-up can make social connection a habit rather than an afterthought. If reaching out doesn\u2019t come naturally, set reminders to text or call a friend. Knowing that your next social moment is already planned removes uncertainty and keeps connection steady.<\/p>\n
Community doesn\u2019t have to be complicated. Sometimes, all it takes is a single invitation, a small shared interest, or a regular check-in. When you take that first step, you may be surprised at how quickly strangers begin to feel like friends.<\/p>\n